Family law mediation is a process in which a neutral mediator helps spouses or parents discuss disagreements and try to reach an agreement. In Orange County, mediation may involve divorce terms, property and debts, or custody and parenting time.
The mediator helps identify the issues, gives each person an opportunity to explain their concerns, and discusses possible solutions. The mediator does not act as the judge or require the parties to accept a settlement.
The terms depend on the issues being discussed. A divorce agreement may address property, debts, and support. A parenting agreement may address custody, weekly schedules, holidays, and exchanges. The co-parenting plan guide explains common parenting provisions.
The terms should be written clearly and signed. When the agreement is intended to become a court order, it must be submitted for the judge’s review and approval. Reaching an agreement does not by itself finish a divorce or replace an existing order.
No. Private mediation can address agreed topics selected by the participants. Court custody mediation focuses on custody and parenting time and may be required before a contested custody hearing.
Yes. Participating in mediation does not require accepting a proposed agreement. Unresolved issues may need a court decision.
The time varies with the number of issues, available information, and progress toward agreement. There is no guaranteed number of sessions or completion date.
Yes. Parties may agree on some issues while leaving others unresolved. The written agreement should clearly identify what has been settled.
Document preparation information is available on the family law document preparation page.
For related topics, see the guide to family law documents in Orange County.
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